Daddy Ricky Rozay
Let me be the first to admit that I have no issues calling a man…DADDY.
I miss you, DADDY!
F*ck me DADDY
I love them all. Why? It’s sexy and from my personal experience…it will turn a man on faster than the speed of light.
Outside of the obvious “sexualness” of the term Daddy, it’s validating. I was having a conversation recently with my homegirl and blindly referred to my new piece as Daddy. She gasped and quietly asked if I seriously called him Daddy. Hell yeah. I caught myself and immediately tried to downplay that he was on that level. I admitted that I did indeed call him “Daddy So & So” but only in the bedroom. She sighed and quietly confessed that she calls her current beau Daddy as well. But there was this awkward, humiliated undertone to her confession. What’s the f-ing big deal?
Again, I have no issues calling a man Daddy. In fact, I love it. I love reaching that point in a relationship and giving my partner the final seal of sex approval by calling him Daddy. Furthermore, it drives him wild. I ran this by a few more of my girls and I was shocked to learn that there are some women that have serious issues with this. Some of them are completely disgusted. Others were too prideful. I received a series of:
“I’m not giving a man that much control.”
“I can’t call my man Daddy without thinking about my real dad.”
“That’s beneath me.”
“I refuse. Hell no.”
“I only have 1 (one) Dad and his name is ‘MyDaughter IsLame'”
Calling a man Daddy is a deal-breaker and degrading but you’ll drop to your knees in a heartbeat to give…well…nevermind. I’m not judging but I can’t help but to think, “BORING” when I debate with my girls about the Daddy issue. My father is my best friend. Period. We have the ideal father-daughter relationship and I believe my man should be as great of a man as my father. I don’t know about you but thoughts of my father do not come to mind when I’m with my partner…or at least when I’m about to get it in. Calling a man Daddy is a simple term of endearment. It’s about submission. It’s about letting your man know he’s desired and he’s the King. Making my man feel sexy makes me feel sexy. However, calling my man Daddy does not interfere with my relationship with my real father.
There are some men that indirectly demand it or expect you call them Daddy. I had a g-chat discussion with another girl of mine, she mentioned that one of her ex’s demeanor changed completely – he went from Ronnie Romance to Incredible Hulk. Here’s how our chat went:
Simone: With John, it was very common Because he’s a fucking freak of the week me: HAHAHA! NOT John!!! Simone: yeah, it’s shocking but he’s one of the freakiest men I’ve ever known Simone: I mean. John… Simone: he had a superiority thing me: Figures Simone: men who want to own you… LOVE to be called Daddy me: Never thought about it like that. Simone: all psychological me: You think? Simone: sex is sooo mental me: I feel like it’s the greatest compliment you could ever give your man. Highest form of flattery… Sexually Simone: you think so? hmmm… good point. I guess it is flattering… it’s basically giving yourself up.
Maybe it’s just me…but I’d love to turn my man into the Incredible Hulk by only calling him Daddy.What are your thoughts on calling a man Daddy? Are you ashamed? Against it? If so, why? Do you seriously have issues separating your real Daddy from your Big Daddy? Have you noticed any changes in your man’s behavior after calling him Daddy?