Everyone Has a Roster
These four words made me sick to my stomach. I’m not sure what’s more upsetting about this comment: the fact that it isn’t true…for me at least or the fact that it’s coming from someone I’ve been sexing. Either way, I’m not too thrilled about having several dating options. I’m a die-hard hopeless romantic, who believes in fairy tales and prince charming. I love being in love and seeing others in love. I find comfort in a healthy, loving, monogamous relationship. I simply can’t juggle several different men.
Paul Carrick Brunson, challenges women, for the month of July, to ask and go out on at least 10 dates with 10 different men. According to Mr. Brunson, your dating life, and perspective, will change forever. He also highly recommends that you should be ready for dating before pursuing this challenge. If you’re not ready for dating, simply take a dating sabbatical.
I have a pretty active social life but I’m not sure if I’m bold enough to survive this challenge. Approaching, or pursuing, men is not in my nature! What shall I say? Should I look friendly? Inviting? Lustful? Evil? What should I do!?! I’ve NEVER had to mack any man down AND request a phone number. This challenge will definitely force me to step out of my comfort zone and step my confidence game up. 10 dates with 10 different men seems a bit extreme, but I think I’ll give it a shot. I’ll keep everyone posted with my progress.
What do you think of this challenge? Do you have any phobias about approaching men? Have you ever made the first move on a guy? Looking for places to meet men?? Check out the 10 ten places to meet men… here