Move That Dope

My stress level is at an all time high. I landed a new gig a last year that's prepping me for the C-Suite in the coming years. I'm the only black chick on the team in a highly-visible department ideating millionaire dollar ideas for a major media outlet. There's no room for error or slacking....especially for me. Outside …

Woman to Woman: Alexsandra Wright Apology to Tina Knowles

Alexsandra Wright met Matthew Knowles. Matthew (successful, married man) is father of Beyonce and Solange Knowles. Alexsandra pursued and nurtured an affair. The couple had unprotected sex sans the birth control. Alexsandra got pregnant and kept the baby. Alexsandra gave the baby the Knowles last name. She broke every side chick rule in the book. And even …

How to Date a Strong Black Woman

Side. Motherfucking Eye. I cringe when I hear the phrase "strong black woman." There's a negative, warrior-like connotation with being a strong black woman. Don't believe me? Google image the phrase! I can't carry the world and your problems on my shoulders.  I'm still trying to tackle mine. I cry. I don't have an attitude. …

Christmas Gift

Summer is swiftly coming an end. The all-white parties are lined up for the upcoming Labor Day holiday weekend. Now is the time to make those annual gyno appointments and stock up on seasonal supply of the Nuvaring. Your long, hot days and drunken nights are just about over… it was fun while it lasted. …